it's been awhile
Something I am learning lately. Don't make someone a priority when they make you an option. It's a big one. It is so hard to remind yourself that you are worth someone's whole self. Don't get me wrong, my husband will love, trust, and worship God more than me. That is a definite.
However, my husband will love me more than anyone else on this planet. There will be no confusion. No difficult decisions in which I am one of several options. I have been through that. It's not worth it. The man God has for me is for me.
I think that's so hard for us to deal with, especially in college. We are supposed to be finding the loves of our lives. Marriage is no longer a joke or a fantasy. It is a reality. What is he picks me? Then we can live happily ever after. Ok. But what if he doesn't? Where does that leave you? Do you wait for him to change his mind and realize you're the "one." If he changes his mind once, it won't be that hard for him to change it again. By the way, this works both ways, ladies.
My advice tonight is simple. Chase after God with everything you have. Your entire heart. Only when God has your whole heart can he give it to another person. Oh, you thought that you did that? That you gave your heart away to the love of your life? That's awfully risky isn't it? We are human. We do make mistakes. We often give our hearts to the wrong one.
But if your heart is in God's hands, He has the power to give it to the man of your dreams. And He will. He wants to see you fall in love. I like to think that God enjoys watching the romantic comedy that he is directing here on Earth.
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